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Folding Time

A Feeling

Posted on March 9, 2025March 15, 2025 by Melissa Willis

Have you ever felt like you were the only one who felt or thought a certain way? Like you were a black sheep because no one else you’ve known in your life has reacted to or perceived things in the same way as you do? Maybe you’ve felt foolish or misunderstood or maybe you just didn’t even know how to explain to anyone what you were thinking or experiencing?

Let me tell you, I felt this way for decades.

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LiveMemory and AI’s place in Genealogy

Posted on November 21, 2024March 15, 2025 by Melissa Willis

This may be an unpopular opinion but I’d like to wager a guess that at least a few in this genealogy community will understand when I say that LiveMemory, MyHeritage’s newest AI photo animation tool, freaks me out.

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On being bold & queer, across generations

Posted on May 3, 2024 by Melissa Willis

Thanks to my maternal Grandma’s writing, I know that Nancy was a Quaker and very much a “woman of her time”. She was expected to do things a certain way and expected the same of her 13 children. Which is why, when Hannah came along and didn’t exactly fall in line, she began telling her how “bold and queer” she was.

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Deliria by Eve Stanton, 1933

Posted on April 10, 2024 by Melissa Willis

I live in a room that is straight and bare,

With rings on my fingers and thorns in my hair

And I hear all night against my door

The pounding hands of the days before.

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Journaling in Family History

Posted on January 10, 2024 by Melissa Willis

Journaling is a passionate hobby of mine, a hobby I’ve happily begun weaving through various aspects of my family history documentation in a variety of ways.

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Heritage Journal – Starting with Myself

Posted on December 18, 2023 by Melissa Willis

When I laid out the plans for my Heritage Journal I knew intuitively that starting with myself would probably pose a challenge.

Truly, how does one properly reflect on their life in a concise way on a simple two page spread, especially when one considers their life only half lived?!

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On This Day: November 8th

Posted on November 8, 2023 by Melissa Willis

On this day…

In a timeline where a birth date

can also become a death date,

by sheer will,

stood a man determined

to make it so.

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On This Day: 5 November 1906

Posted on November 5, 2023 by Melissa Willis

On this day…

117 years ago,

my maternal great grandparents,

William Oscar and Una June

were married in Jasper, Missouri.

William was 23,

Una was only 16.

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On This Day: 2 November 1943

Posted on November 2, 2023 by Melissa Willis

On this day…

80 years ago,

my biological father was born.

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I'm Melissa :-)

Ghost Chaser | Kin Seeker
NPE Survivor | Tea Drinker

As a hobbyist family historian and genetic genealogist, I find great joy in folding time with the Ancestors in an effort to best honor them while documenting their legacies for future generations. Grab a cuppa, let's sit for a spell and chat about ghosts!

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